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When we think about rape we think about the attacker jumping out of the bushes, or the attack in the dark alley. But more than 80% of all rapes are committed by someone the victim knows. By a friend, a boyfriend, a co-worker, someone they think they can trust.
Date and acquaintance rape is about power, control, and betrayal. It's violent. It's a crime. And it's certainly not about love.
Sometimes it's easier to think sexual violence only happens to other people. However pretending it isn't a problem won't make it go away. We need to face our fears, become informed and teach our children respect for others in order for it to end.
Here are some things that may indicate you are in danger and also some ways to protect yourself.
You may be in DANGER if your date:
- Demeans women
- Ignores your opinion or needs
- Tries to intimidate you physically
- Is mean or cruel to children or animals
- Uses alcohol or drugs and puts you down for refusing to do so
- Repeatedly tries to get you alone
Ways to PROTECT yourself:
- Know your own expectations and communicate them to someone who pushes the limits.
- Be aware that using drugs or alcohol lowers your ability to protect yourself.
- Decide what your values are and know your limits before you date.
- Don't let your date make all the decisions.
- Be prepared with your own money and transportation in case you need to leave.
- Avoid secluded or isolated places
- Don't go home with people you don't know well
For information on rape or other family issues, call:
1-800-KSL-KSL1 (575-5751)
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